Encouraging Exit from Unrequited Love. Unrequited lovers have always enjoyed a special kind of attention and sympathy from our society. We mostly never worry about how uncomfortable unrequited love is, for the rejecter. Do we not feel guilty after rejecting someone? Does it not hurt us to hurt another human? Persistence in spite of rejection, […]
A Message for Unrequited Lovers. Don’t let your insecurities get the better of you. Desperation is an ugly little thing that can damage relationships. Desperation will drive potential dates away. Being confident and independent, prioritizing, and doing what’s best for you will pay off. Be proud of who you are and don’t change yourself for
The Fallacy of Unrequited Love. While going through separation in unrequited love, it is important to be compassionate. Be true to what you feel and be kind to what the other feels. I have written about this in my article Moving On in Unrequited Love. Be willing to compromise or let go of all that
Being in Unrequited Love. The moments of unreturned, unrequited love or lust may be tough. They may even feel vulnerable, gut-wrenchingly sad, lonely, confusing and bare. Yet they are a tough reality of togetherness and separateness. And yet all of us keep falling in and out of unrequited all the time. There is not one
Unlucky in Unrequited Love. To say that love hasn’t obeyed my expectations would be the understatement of the century. Love does not obey our expectations; it obeys our intentions. So, watch who you fall in love with, starting from the moment you start feeling attracted to the person. Most of us have not been lucky
Separation, Rejection and Unrequited Love Rejection has a grievous impact on behaviour, sure enough. But the emotion rarely shows! Often rejection fails to bring out immediate emotional reaction. Why is that so? Social exclusion does affect us, but these effects do not depend on emotional distress. This has been rather shocking and has led us
The Flaws of Unrequited Love. When we are able to give our love freely, when just to love someone feels like appreciation of self, without any strings attached; that is the state of loving detachment. It is very important for unrequited lovers to understand this form of love, because if you are able to love
Appreciating Unrequited Love. If you are the one who fell and fell hard, there is nearly nothing worse than unrequited love. Things may seem grim, I’m not going to lie, and it feels like the world just tipped off of its axis and sent you hurdling, but there is hope and there is healing, after
Power to Change Unrequited Love. When in unrequited love, remember the verse in the Bible where Jesus told His followers, “They will know you are my disciples by your love.” It is not a new thought. We have been taught to love unconditionally. When love is not returned in any way, when the door is
Avoiding Unrequited Love. Unfortunately, we do not live in a perfect world and for this reason we often tend to fall in love with people who are unavailable to us, either emotionally or for some other reason. In a perfect world, we would only ever fall in love with a person who would reciprocate; after