Lovable You in Unrequited Love. Unrequited love is a difficult situation. Yep, it can hurt something terrible. That, however, is no excuse to lose your sense of humor! As discussed in my blog Encouraging Self in Unrequited Love, a timeless, shameless classic in the world of movies contains the catchy refrain: “Always look on the […]
Encouraging Self in Unrequited Love. Neediness in unrequited love hinders your ability to be loving and giving, and makes you a perpetual taker. I am not saying that only unrequited lovers are needy. As discussed in my previous blog Unrequited Love – Improvement, we’re all needy at some time or the other, but constant neediness
Unrequited Love – Improvement. The basic rule to avoid getting hurt in unrequited love is to get clarity before setting out on an improvement trip. It is alright to discuss with your beloved what you think is important for you in the relationship. If you are staying far away from each other, you will probably
Denying Unrequited Love. I have heard people discuss – can unrequited, unreturned love work? Does it have the capacity to last for a lifetime? You will be surprised to know how many lovers have spent a lifetime loving and only loving one person, alone! Although love is a matter of the heart, a lot of
Unrequited Love – The Disinterested Lover. If you were honest with yourself in unrequited love, you would have to admit that loving someone who doesn’t love you in return is not an enjoyable way to live your life. There is no future in it. And, even though you may desire the object of your affection,
Moving Beyond Unrequited Love. While we are discussing the possible reasons why unrequited love happens, I am reminded of the effect of random traumatic experiences that an individual might have had in the past. It is possible that you keep returning to unreciprocated love relationships due to an experience that had a negative effect on
Pursuing Unrequited Love. For centuries, cinema has been perpetuating the stories that we have been listening to. Narrative arts and romantic films are inspirational. We start dreaming about and expecting to go through the same conflicting emotions that we watch in movies and hope that our lives will become as transcendental as in the cinema.
Why Unrequited Love – Possibilities. Unreciprocated relationships can occur for several reasons. Unconsciously making unavailability a prerequisite for falling in love is like insisting on going swimming only in dry deserts – it’s never going to work. As discussed in my blog Unrequited Love – Patterns, if you have been doing this, or you suspect
Unrequited Love – Patterns. Unrequited love not only robs you of your joy and makes you feel hopeless, it can also result in many physical issues such as insomnia, listlessness, irritability, rashes, malnutrition and nausea. As discussed in my blog Typical Unrequited Lover, you may experience frustration, anger, anxiety, depression, feelings of shyness, or fear
Typical Unrequited Lover. Displaying relentless is an important sign of one way love in the border land of unrequited love obsession. Read about this in detail in my blog Suffering Relationships in Unrequited Love. You will know this is a problem if you keep telling yourself that the object of your affection will surely change