Wrapping Up Unrequited Love Cords.
Whenever an unrequited lover feels the ‘need’ for the love of his beloved, he is attaching a cord with them, however, this cord doesn’t connect through the heart. It connects through other, less clear places. This kind of connection pulls and sucks at the lover’s energy and do not work for the higher good of anyone. You may read about this in detail in my blog Unrequited Love and Detachment. When we are able to give our love freely, when just to love someone feels like appreciation of self, without any strings attached; that is the state of loving detachment. It is very important for unrequited lovers to understand this form of love, because if you are able to love with detachment, the one-way love will not have as much negative impact on you. If you are able to love the unavailable object like we love the beauty of the setting sun, knowing that this beauty belongs to nature and we can only watch it, and let it have the calming effect on, without expecting anything else, then unrequited love does not encumber you. It does not pull energy from you. It simply Loves.
I once came across a story of a young woman, who was in a coma, dying of cancer. Her loving parents, not knowing what else to do for her, sought prayers from people on a social networking site. People started responding and connecting from all over the world and the young woman lingered on. On night, a great healer was visited by the woman’s spirit in a state of turmoil. She looked deeply distressed and this made the healer go and visit her. When he sat by her side, he saw that she was wrapped in energetic cords from head to toe. These were the cords that people had sent to her as prayers, meaning well, but not understanding the consequences of what they were doing. He sat by her side and helped her cut those cords and free herself. The next day she again visited him in his dream. This time refreshed and happy. He later heard that she had died that evening.
Understanding the importance and effect of tuning your cords with your beloved in unrequited love enables you to live healthy and yet continue to love someone, but with healthy detachment. It is an absolute necessity to have all of your own energy in your own space in your own body. Do not direct cords towards others or influence their lives. You do not need energy from others to survive. And this also holds true for love cords. You do not need love energy flowing from your beloved to live a healthy life, but you certainly need to save your own energy from getting drained through an unrequited love cord. You have your own life plan with infinite resources of energy at your disposal. Allow it to flow into you by tuning into the Divine source, within yourself. Be willing to receive this energy from within, which will fill every cell of your being, giving you life.
In this series of blogs about cutting cords in unrequited love, I have discussed various forces and energies that make us what we are. Most techniques of delving into the subconscious mind such as Hypnosis, Psychotherapy or Psychoanalysis are often unable to clear past conditioning because these techniques do not consider the existence of these energies and do not take into account the metaphysical nature of the human being. It requires deep knowledge of all the energies that form a human being, in order to reach the subconscious blockages that form the basis of an unrequited lover’s earthly ego. When you start practising the spiritual techniques to get rid of the dysfunctional parts of your relationship with your beloved, you experience far more than a memory of a previous incarnation, in the developed stages of spirituality.
If you have been following my previous articles on cutting cords, by now you should have a good understanding of the fundamentals. It might be wise to re-read those articles, or bookmark them to grab back whenever you encounter a subject that I have written about! If you haven’t read them, it might be good to look up a few of my previous articles to get clarity about the subject.
I believe in your capability to find the right person to love! Sending you light for a happy life.
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