Unrequited Love Connection.
All of us have one person in our life who feels like an association of a lifetime. This kind of connection is often referred to as – The friend of Spirit. This is someone who has been with you ever since you remember and continues to be with you for a lifetime and even after that, for many lives to come. With a friend of Spirit, you could be far away from each other, living different stories in life and yet there is a connection and harmony between you and your friend of spirit. At times, we mistake this connection for love, especially if it is felt with someone of the same age but opposite gender. This feeling, when not reciprocated, leaves the individual to unattainable love.
A very common example of this kind of friendship has been seen in a couple that has children together and end up in a divorce. The children become a reason for their bond which is external and yet they cannot live together as a couple. This kind of connection is characterized by the existence of two individuals with a deep external connection, who should ideally work together closely but in reality, are far apart. These individuals are mostly a social prop in each other’s lives, working with each other in ways that are greater than just a simple friendship. In this kind of connection, one of the partners might be in unrequited love with the other, or there might be no love lost between them.
They say when you have found your soulmate, you don’t even need to speak, in order to connect with each other. A soulmate ensures your personal growth and achievement, even if it means losing you. The kindness that you receive from a soulmate is unconditional and non-judgemental. To have a better understanding of the types of relationships that will form a part of your life and how to work with relationship chemistry, will help you find the right person to fall in love with; someone who will match down to the depths of your soul. In my article Relationships and Unrequited Love, I have discussed about few such relationships, one of which is Soulmates.
Unrequited love pangs tear at your heart when both of you are buffeted about in one drama after another. With time, you become an emotional wreck; confused and incapable of being strong in the presence of your lover. You feel sucked off, of better sense, logic and emotions. I would like to mention here, just for a cause, that minority social groups who feel excluded show many of the same patterns as unrequited lovers- antisocial behaviour, high rates of aggression, decreased willingness to obey rules or cooperate, more self-destructive acts. poorer intellectual performance, etc. If we could possibly promote a more inclusive society, some of these tragic patterns could be reduced when people feel themselves to be accepted as valued members.
Did you know that if you want to get to know someone who is a stranger, it is possible to connect to them by sending them a cord. If you fall in love with someone but have not yet talked to them, your desire has the capability to send a cord to them. As I have discussed before, it is possible to consciously create a cord to another person, however, this is not a simple method and requires knowledge and practise. This process to connect two people is commonly practised in the domain of black magic. It is not healthy to purposely affect or control someone’s energy without their permission by use of psychic means and I strictly advise against it. Karmic repercussions for such acts are enormous and there are no exemptions from this rule!
I have always said in my articles that finding love in someone who doesn’t want to reciprocate the feeling is looking beyond the universe, because you are the universe; everything is within you. The best relationship is your relationship with yourself. The best experiences in life manifest with the highest levels of self-love and self-esteem. Because you are the Universe, you are the world, just start right here within your heart.
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