Unrequited Love and Soulmate Cultivation.
Meditation, healthy eating, yoga and taking care of your physical and spiritual wellbeing will help you evolve and become a more radiant human being. However, working on yourself does not ensure a radiant relationship. After a great meditation session, you may go for breakfast and have the most horrendous fight with your lover. While a moment back, you thought your mind is relaxed and capable of handling not-so-good situations, here you are, either sulking or shouting. Leaves you wondering ‘why’?
Your relationship is a third entity. It has a life of its own.
This is the main reason why unrequited or one-way love can never be fulfilling. Evolving in a relationship requires two bodies and minds to meditate together, into each other. This meditation is the sexual union of two individuals. The space where you experience fulfilment of the deepest needs of intimacy, deep nurturing into an expansive state of Consciousness. When you have found your soulmate, you automatically slip into this kind of meditation; and when you walk out, you have faith in your capability to handle the not-so-good situations. Your union with your soulmate is conducive of highly developed level of spirituality and self-realisation.
Becoming Love Itself
Life gives us one golden opportunity to become love itself, and the greatest catalyst for this to happen is a relationship, not unrequited, one-way love.
In order to experience the phenomenon of the Soulmate, love the one you are with in full consciousness. This is possible only when the other person is equally in love with you. Only then can you experience your relationship blossoming into a Soulmate Relationship. As we move deeper into our relationship, we discover the density of relationship fuels the awakening of consciousness. Experiencing this metamorphosis is extraordinary. When you start following the meditation of sexual union, you discover a wealth of love in your relationship that only your soulmate can bring out in you. As I have written in my blog More About Relationships and Karma, a relationship is a combination of bonds. When you make love, a spiritual bond is formed, which intimately binds the chakras of two individuals. People who are promiscuous are mostly unable to balance their relationships because the chakra cords are being broken constantly. Today, when relationships are formed and broken so frequently, you will need to work hard to become Karma clear after a relationship has ended. This will be a time when you don’t have mental, spiritual, physical or emotional attachment elsewhere. This is when one cycle has ended and you are ready for a new task in your life.
In a regular relationship, sexual union can be a crude and boring affair, however, when experienced with a soulmate, it becomes sublime sacred ecstasy that awakens rapture in body heart and soul. All us have a choice. Complacence or bliss? Ultimately, the true purpose of all soulmate relationships is to move beyond the ordinary waking state of consciousness into Cosmic consciousness because that is how they are meant to be.
Twin Flame
I remember once, a married friend began experiencing intense attraction to a man she had to be in the presence of, each day while at work. At that time, a spiritual guru had instructed her to remain faithful to her husband, so that their relationship could go deeper into intimacy. I have written about this in detail in my blog Soulmates and Unrequited Love.
Unrequited love is a powerful fuel for bringing to life many karmic relationships.
At times you experience a love connection with someone so strong, you start believing that this is your twin flame. Does this person arrive with a magical sense of reality, a super sexual chemistry, or a supernatural overtone? Perhaps it is a mystical connection on a deeper soul level. However, there is something dangerous about this kind of connection. The longing and passion build clear signs indicating that this is your soulmate. But once you get close, the passion may be unstoppable.
If one or both individuals experiencing this kind of attraction happen to be in relationship with or married to someone else, this kind of attraction can lead to unfolding of a love drama with emotional highs, crashing lows and perhaps even paranormal activity. You find yourself taking greater risks that may be out of character for you. You do things that you have never done with other partners. This affair becomes obsessive in a way that both of you feel like you are being buffeted around by unseen forces. It feels surreal, and influenced from the beyond.
This article is a part of my research about forces that lead to an individual’s search for his soul mate. Do dive deeper into other subjects through the links that I have provided in this article. In my next blog I am going to write more about types of soul mate connections.