True Love is Never Unattainable.
When you realise that the person you love is not in love with you, or never was, step back. See the truth of the matter and do what needs to be done, which is – nothing. Don’t try to find ways to get them (back) into your life. Even if you love this person, this person does not love you. You don’t need someone else to show you how precious you are. This may come as a big surprise, but, you really don’t need your needs!
I know some of you are laughing at me now. But trust me, it’s true! So, let go of your perceived needs. Take help from my previous articles. If you have been following my previous articles, by now you should have a good understanding of the fundamentals of unattainable love and associated psychology and you would know that each one of my articles will inspire you to form a healthy relationship where both of you are totally in love with each other. It might be wise to re-read those articles, or bookmark them to grab back whenever you encounter a subject that I have written about!
The person for you, will love you. Deeply and completely. Know that.
It’s time to work on you, but not for them, for you and the possibility of real love down the line. Stop re-injuring yourself with questions about what is wrong with you that they don’t want you. Stop focusing on what was and think about what is and what will be. Do your affirmations. Reject this rejecter and every rejecter that came before. Know that you are worth being loved.
True love exists. It is possible. It happens. Trust me when I say that. Get yourself out of this vicious circle and the suffering of unattainable love. Help yourself meditate connect with the universe and accept that this relationship is not going to develop into anything further. It is not easy to bear the emotional pain. It can easily affect your job, friends and even health. If you and your beloved are made for each other like true soulmates are, your connection cannot be so weak. So unattainable.
Sometimes, you may have a sacred contract to be together in this lifetime, but the contract is not about romantic love. You know, you may even be married to someone and yet be in unattainable love? In such a case, the relationship is meant to teach you about love itself, and how deeply you can feel for another person on a platonic level, or how deeply you can be hurt in love. I have often said that we play different roles for each other, to help each other grow and evolve, when we incarnate over and over again with members of our soul group. There is a sacred contract with these souls, that is pre-destined, but we also have the power of free will to override some aspects of these contracts. We are free to override even the aspects of our own destiny. If this sounds funny or unbelievable to you, read this.
In the meantime, focus your attention on yourself. Unattainable love often causes you to neglect the other relationships in your life. You may even become withdrawn or cut yourself off from social activities. But, it is vitally important that you find ways to constructively fill your time and surround yourself with family and friends who will offer understanding and support. It sounds trite, but you must get your mind off the unreturned love, stop dwelling on it, and redirect your energy to something more effective such as a hobby or newly set goal. Exercise, take a vacation, plan some outings with friends, or even start dating again. After all, you will never meet someone who will love and accept you if you are not open to other possibilities of companionship and emotional intimacy.
You must take time out to explore your issues, be good to you, know your value, understand your value and get your value from inside you and not outside. Feel your feelings. Celebrate the you that is you. Reject the rejecter. And know that the right person for you is out there.
Reject the rejecter and embrace all that is you; the good is waiting for you. Believe it.
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