Spiritual Transformation in Unrequited Love.
Most techniques of delving into the subconscious mind such as Hypnosis, Psychotherapy or Psychoanalysis are often unable to clear past conditioning of mind and soul, because these techniques do not consider the existence of external energies and do not take into account the metaphysical nature of the human being. In my previous articles, I have been discussing various forces and energies that make us what we are. It requires deep knowledge of all the energies that form a human being, in order to reach the subconscious blockages that form the basis of an unrequited lover’s earthly ego. When you start practising the spiritual techniques to get rid of the dysfunctional parts of your relationship with your beloved, you experience far more than a memory of a previous incarnation, in the developed stages of spirituality.
You may pause at this and try to rationalize that this is simply because of a poor relationship choice with the wrong person. But I assure you, it is really not that simple. These things can co-exist when you are in a third-party relationship, most importantly when you are love-bitten by them. You may read about this in detail here.
Constant flow of thoughts to a particular person, place or thing directs our energy to them, connecting us to that object. In this way, when an unrequited lover constantly thinks about his beloved, cords automatically form between two individuals, sending more energy and becoming thicker and bigger as the lover thinks more about the beloved. This phenomenon attaches the lover’s energy to that object, leading to loss of energy in the lover.
This loss of energy is called ‘giving power away’, and is the main reason why an unrequited lover easily puts a lot of important matters of life aside, while pursuing his love object. In this case, energies not only flow between two people, but also get entangled with each other. Understanding the importance and effect of tuning your cords with your beloved in unrequited love enables you to live healthy and yet continue to love someone, but with healthy detachment.
The best relationship is your relationship with yourself. The best experiences in life manifest with the highest levels of self-love and self-esteem. I have always said in my articles that finding love in someone who doesn’t want to reciprocate the feeling is looking beyond the universe, because you are the universe; everything is within you. Because you are the Universe, you are the world, just start right here within your heart. You may read about this in detail in my blog Relationships and Spirituality. While you are in the process of cutting or removing emotional cords in unrequited love, remember that the mind has to be cleared of all past conditioning in order to let true spiritual transformation occur.
The way we behave, feel, think and act are deeply linked to the goal of connecting us to the cultural system. In that way, rejection or social exclusion is not simply a misfortune. Nor is it just a sad drama. It strikes at the core of what our psyche is designed for. Social exclusion or rejection thwarts the need to belong. It causes emotional distress, and wreaks havoc in the person’s life. This is why, when your loved one walks away like there was nothing between the two of you, the chemical reactions that go on inside the unrequited lover’s body are similar to the loss of a loved one. I have written about this in detail in my blog Addicted to Grief. You feel inconsolably hurt, broken and shattered. Although emotional pain is different from physical pain, a break-up or rejection literally crushes your heart in a way that you feel it breaking inside your chest like it was physically happening.
If you have been following my previous articles on the subject, by now you should have a good understanding of the fundamentals of unrequited love. It might be wise to re-read those articles, or bookmark them to grab back whenever you encounter a subject that I have written about! If you haven’t read them, it might be good to look up a few of my previous articles to get clarity about the subject.
I believe in your capability to find the right person to love! Sending you light for a happy life. Want to talk? Please leave your comments in the message section, they are my inspiration.