What good is an affection that can’t be enjoyed, commended, moved and sung to, an adoration that can’t enfold you safely with your loved one? A lonely love that finds no outer response will undoubtedly benefit from itself, bringing about disappointment and emptiness.
It’s waiting for something that may never happen. It’s taking a gander at somebody who doesn’t see you. It’s considering somebody day and night while you likely never enter their thoughts. It’s looking at your phone all the time in hope that they’d text you or call you as they call someone else. It’s contacting them with such a lot of enthusiasm as they react with apathy.
“Unrequited love is the infinite curse of a lonely heart” ~Christina Westove.
“You like someone who can’t like you back because unrequited love can survive in a way that once-requited love cannot.” – John Green
You’re battling your emotions, you’re battling your feelings. You’re battling reality. You’re fighting all those people who are advising you. You’re engaging your own instinct. Your gut. Your rationale. Your heart. It’s a fight you can’t win. A war you can’t stop. It’s losing again and again. It’s giving up to something that will eventually destroy you.
“Perhaps unrequited love was a specter in the house, a presence that brushed at the edge of senses, a heat in the dark, and a shadow under the sun.” – Sherry Thomas
It’s one individual giving and the other one is taking. It’s one individual adoring and the other isn’t even moved. It’s one individual continually wanting for something else while the other is maintaining a strategic distance from the subject inside and out. It’s one individual ready to effectively make it work and the other isn’t in any event, considering everything. It’s one individual continually crying and the other one is continually chuckling.
It’s doubting your self-esteem each night. It’s continually asking why you’re adequately not, why you never get picked, why you’re never the chosen one. It’s enhancing each minor blemish. It’s lying in bed overthinking all that you’ve said and done in light of the fact that it probably been something you stated, it should have been you. It’s feeling like you’ll never be adored on the grounds that nobody had the option to cherish you back. Nobody you needed genuinely needed you.
It’s enjoying the possibility of somebody. In any case, genuine love is rarely uneven. Genuine love is reciprocated. Real love shows restraint. Genuine love is understanding. Genuine love is two individuals setting out on an awesome excursion along with all its high points and low points. It’s two individuals willingly choosing each other. It’s two individuals attempting to acknowledge one another and love the most noticeably terrible pieces of each other. It’s two individuals promising to be there for one another in infection and in wellbeing. Genuine love recuperates. Unrequited love breaks. Genuine love is the solitary love you need to search for. Unrequited love is definitely not love. It’s a graceful term for awfulness. A graceful term for affliction.