Cords and Unrequited Love.
Emotional cords that connect individuals to one another are made of astral and etheric energy and connect the subtle bodies. You may read about this in detail in my blog Cutting Cords in Unrequited Love. Cords stretch between individuals like an umbilical cord and perform the function of transferring emotional energy between the two. Even if you are far away from each other, the cords continue to transfer energy, as they are not a physical substance; they are effective even from a distance.
We all know that babies have the umbilical cord connecting them to the mother. However, there is an ethereal cord that remains even after the umbilical cord is cut. It reaches out from the child’s stomach to the mother’s heart, to let the mother know when the child is hungry. While these cords exist during infancy and gradually drop off as the child grows up and does not require the connection anymore, most of us have so many emotional issues that the cords can often last well into adulthood. Some mothers are emotionally needy and might use the cord for self-nourishment from the baby’s fresh and abundant energy. Similarly, in unrequited love, as the presence of your beloved is a source of energy to you, your loved one might unknowingly form a cord with you and start using your energy for self-nourishment, leaving you depressed and drained. Continued existence of such cords often causes friction between the two parties and leads to dysfunctional feelings toward each other. Negative feelings and resentment start building, causing the individuals to suffer.
Unrequited lovers do not know what is happening but they sense that somehow they are being drained. Generally, they think it is because of rejection or lack of reciprocity. At times you move to another country, trying to put an end to the constant negative feeling, but wherever you go, it almost feels like your beloved is draining you from afar. There are many ways to interact through a cord and this is one of them. When an unrequited lover madly pursues his beloved, he is actually giving the object of love the power to control him. You can read about this in detail in my blog Let Go of Unrequited Love. Even if you realise this phenomenon and begin the process of cutting cords that are controlling you and draining your positive energy, the cords keep coming back unless you resolve the underlying reason for this cording with the specific individual. Certain methods have been helpful in successfully cutting cords, ensuring smooth exit from a situation or relationship and offering opportunity to heal the underlying issues.
The cord between lovers is one of the most common cords. The sharing of energy is greatly amplified during a sexual encounter, when each wants to attain deepest satisfaction through the other. Cords are mostly formed due to the feelings of love and sharing. Hence, when two people have been involved physically, there is a good chance that an emotional relationship has also been formed between them. The cords between lovers can become gross or be clean and good, depending on the emotional issues of the two. One partner’s needs are likely to drain the other, making the other partner dissatisfied and drained in the relationship. If the situation continues to be like this, it causes problems for a couple and can certainly become a cause of breaking up. The various ways of clearing cords that I have discussed in my blog Releasing Unrequited Love Cords can help alleviate the emotional intensity. This helps the couple to progress to a more balanced relationship. In case you decide to part ways without having released the cords binding the two of you, they will stay for a long time and continue to operate. The existence of these cords will make it hard for both of you to move on with another partner. Clearing cords does wonders in forming better bonds in the future.
Any two individuals or a group of individuals emotionally connected with each other are bound by cords. These cords can also be used by other dimensional entities to drain our energy by connecting with us. In my next blog I am going to write about sending cords to connect with someone.
Please share your experiences in the comments section and I will add them to my future blogs.