Cheating Men and Unrequited Love.
Saving yourself from unrequited love or rejection does not only include finding the right partner to get into a relationship with, but also keeping what you have and cherishing the existing relationship. While women have more commonly been betrayed by men, than being the betrayer themselves, I thought of writing about ways for women to make their men love them forever. I am not saying these quick tips guarantee a successful relationship, but these might help you in what you have not realized yet, and make you think about what you might have missed, until now, to save yourself from betrayal and rejection.
All humans identify with each other in various ways. Some individuals are extremely independent even when in a relationship, others are needy, and some are interdependent. As discussed in my article Unrequited Love Rediscovered, the most beneficial way for two people to connect with each other is to be genuinely interdependent. This is when two strong, independent individuals depend upon each other, yet sustain their individuality. They share a well-balanced relationship of togetherness and healthy dependence, without sacrificing or compromising on their own values. Unfortunately, this kind of relationships are rare to find, but, with some understanding and awareness, it is not impossible to achieve. And after you have read this article, you might understand how.
Men are a mystery, like who built the pyramids? And surprisingly, men say the same for women! No one knows what would happen if you wrote a love letter to him or got your man flowers. So, don’t do it. If you’re wondering what are the things you can do that would make him never cheat on you, or more importantly marry you and cherish the relationship and be your best friend for life, read these few tips that I have discovered, work wonders in keeping him in a trap made out of love. These are very simple day-to-day things that women often overlook. So, don’t laugh!
Food
Load your refrigerator with stuff he likes to drink. Yes, this is a psychological trick to keep him returning to your apartment.
Men love sex and they love snacks! Make him a snack after sex. That’s right. As soon as the heat is over, pull on your hot-shorts and his T, and dash to the kitchen. You read that right, honey! Make him a gourmet snack — bacon, cream sauce with a side of chicken fingers, or whatever he likes to eat. Then watch him eat and snuggle next to you for a good night’s sleep. No going out, no cheating!
Technology
Men are strange creatures. Send them a love video and they will watch half of it and delete. So, email him links about his favorite TV show, instead. It is most likely going to be a show that’s gritty and it’s what adults watch and that’s what he thinks he is! Don’t send him some random thinkpiece from a lame website like The New York Times. Send him links to smart sport or music blog posts that he can read on his cool iPhone7!
Emotion
When you talk to your friends, your colleagues, family, or anyone at the weekly club that you go to, it should be all about how nice he is! A blown-up ego works wonders for men. Tell the world how successful he is, your richie rich prince, with a calm temperament and sexy body! Remember that a lie is the truth with a positive life attitude.
Body
Answer the door in a negligee. Better yet, answer the door naked. Better yet, answer the door without skin. Men love skeletons! In general, to just do what he says, always, is a tried and tested way to make a man love you forever and ever; just pretend you’re a living doll. No matter how much men claim to love intellectual women, trust me, they are forever tied up only to the dumb ones. Be open to experiments in the bedroom. If he says “you’re Benjamin Franklin and I’m a space goat,” just do it! If he wants to cry after a (horribly) bad performance in bed, just let him! Then make him a snack!
Mind
Allow him to solve your petty issues, even if you are more capable than him of handling them. Everyone knows that women break down and men hold them together. Let him guide you in handling whatever paperwork is to be done with the local, state, and Federal government. He knows matters better than you.
While he is watching the final match of his favourite sport, spit out a sport stat that will really impress him. Then watch him look at you like you’ve fallen straight out of space. This means, when you’re not stuffing your refrigerator with his favourite food and beer, or cooking him snacks, or acting his love-doll, you should be reading facts about his favorite sport.
If you follow this advice, trust me, you would never have to face rejection in love. In a few years, you could become a ‘cool chick’. A ‘cool chick’ is the highest honor to which a woman should aspire.