Unrequited Love and Karma.
In my last post “More About Relationships and Karma” I have talked about general confusion that people have between Karma clear individuals and emotionally or socially available individuals. Someone who just got divorced or recently broke up is a contradiction to clear Karma. That person had an unprocessed relationship which has not been dealt with or cleared out. Notice here that anyone who is in unrequited love is attracted towards or has attracted into his life a karmically unclear person.
If you are single and haven’t met someone who would occupy a special place in your heart, it is because you are yet to meet a Karma clear person. On the other hand, if you are in unrequited, unreciprocated love, there is a possibility that either one of you is not Karma clear.
Today, when relationships are formed and broken so frequently, you will need to work hard to become Karma clear after a relationship has ended. This will be a time when you don’t have mental, spiritual, physical or emotional attachment elsewhere. So when you meet and like someone, both of you should be able to say without a doubt that nothing or no one can threaten this relationship.
Some people are more likely to be insecure and unclear in their thoughts. There is a complicated web of planets and stars like Cancer/Libra planet, Cancer/ Libra rising, Cancer/ Libra Moon, 4th house planets, 7th house planets, that cause this instability in certain individuals. These people are so frightened to be alone, they never let themselves be without some kind of romantic relationship. Note that these people often find themselves breaking someone’s heart because they get into relationships blindly. Consequently, Karma reverses and one day they face rejection from the person they are in unrequited love with.
Women can often fall hopelessly in love with men who are not Karma clear, and have no intention of being karma clear either. The fact is, men have an inbuilt secret intention of pleasing every woman, especially if she is pretty and available. Whatever they do is to make every woman feel special. A karma unclear person has natural magnetism. Ever heard people say “evil attracts”? While this person is capable of attracting many individuals of the opposite gender, it is your duty to check for signs and make sure you are not falling for someone who, later will only lead you to heartbreak. People falling in love with such a person are responsible because they’ve created this.
To be sure of a karma clear person, you first need to look into yourself. Have faith that the intuition of the God-self is strong enough to giving you deliverance. It talks to you through your gut feelings, heart feelings, and head feelings. This is the seventh sense that bounces you on the head and says “get the hell away from this person”, but unfortunately, it is equally true that most people in love are oblivious to this voice of their inner self.
Another reason you continue to get involved with karmically unclear people is social conditioning. Most of us are conditioned to fall in love with the knight in shining armour. Whoever is capable of creating that effect on you, is capable of making you fall in love with him, without you thinking about metaphysics or Karma. At that time, you don’t think about your heart, emotions or feelings. You are just following examples that you have been watching in the movies or reading about in romantic novels. Later, when you face rejection in love, you sit back and think “what did I do wrong”? As I have written in my blog “The Spiritual Gifts of Unrequited Love”, love is one of the greatest teachers and mysteries of life, but we become almost obsessed with cracking the code of love when the object of our love doesn’t love us back. Lovers start believing that there is something that is missing in them, which, if changed, can cause the beloved to fall in love with them. They start finding ways to carve out of the marble of their being, someone that the beloved will find irresistible. The more you change yourself, the more you will turn into a shadow of your own.
In my next blog I am going to write about creating and managing karma. Please leave your comments to let me know what you think about this article. They are my inspiration.