More About Relationships and Karma.
The next time you think there is only one person in the world that can make you happy, then what you sow is what you’ll reap. When you finally meet that one person, they won’t please you, because you’re so picky and hard to please, it keeps you from being around people. Another reason maybe that you are preoccupied in loving someone who doesn’t care about you, and you will not hear love knocking at your door. In my blog “Relationships and Karma”, I have written that the Universe is a reflection of you. Whatever you are as an individual, so is the universe that you create around you. The neighbours, friends, family, home, city and environment you live in, everything in your life is literally a reflection of you. If you feel that your life is a mess, or that the person you love doesn’t love you back and this is making everything in your life negative, incomplete and unwanted, then you need to do some deep soul searching.
Associate with someone who allows you to grow. As I have written in my blog “Hopeless Unrequited Love”, a good relationship is where both partners feel the support of being pushed to achieve their best, yet being loved for what they are. Let your partner feel important in the relationship. Praise and encouragement can work better than power and controlling. Also learn to cooperate and be patient.
Others have no advice to give about your relationships. Why let them make choices for you? Recognize the people who love you and see if you can find a beautiful, committed relationship there, instead of remaining stuck in unrequited love. People are like plants; they will turn into weeds if you don’t cultivate them. If you water them, nurture them, you will form a better relationship and a better reflection of your own self.
If you are looking to fall in love and being loved back, you need to get involved with people who are Karma clear. Look for those people around you. They will be the ones who are selflessly offering their love to you. Karma clear does not mean someone that is without Karma. It means someone who has come out clear of past relationships and is ready to process new ones.
Do not confuse this with emotional or social availability of a person. Someone who just got divorced or recently broke up is a contradiction to clear Karma. That person had an unprocessed relationship which has not been dealt with or cleared out. Metaphysically speaking, a relationship is a combination of bonds. When you make love, a spiritual bond is formed, which intimately binds the chakras of two individuals. People who are promiscuous are mostly unable to balance their relationships because the chakra cords are being broken constantly. If you have found someone outside of your marriage or relationship that your heart feels an inexplicable connection with, you’ve probably found a Karma clear soul and are most likely going to be unable to stop an intimate bond from being formed. Once this happens, it will be very difficult for you to retain a spiritual balance in your current relationship.
This brings us to the problem that many couples experience in today’s world. It occurs when people get physically or emotionally involved with someone in spite of being in a committed relationship, thereby overlapping relationships. When you are not involved, totally available and single, you meet a lot of people that have unclear relationships. They want you to be a part of their lives, yet have somebody that they don’t want to let go of. This can go on for years, if you let it. Such individuals are not Karma clear. One aspect of being Karmically clear yourself, is to love yourself enough to not fall in love with those individuals. It is only going to be difficult for you because they come into your life with unclear relationships. Eventually your love will remain unreciprocated, unrequited or unfulfilled.
Most of us don’t know how to deal with our Karma. We have no idea about absolving or processing it. In my next blog I am going to write about finding a Karma clear person and understanding our own status in current or future relationships.
Your comments are always welcome, so please share your views and I will include them in my future blogs.